Focus: Surviving When Christians Hurt You Day 26 | September 26

Setting Boundaries—Healthy Love Includes Saying ‘No’

Sometimes the healthiest thing is to set new boundaries, especially with Christian friends who take advantage of your kindness. Jesus slipped away to solitary places for renewal (Luke 5:16). “Let your ‘Yes’ be yes and your ‘No,’ no” (Matthew 5:37). Boundaries make space for healing and true friendship.

Bible Verses:

• “Let your ‘Yes’ be yes, and your ‘No,’ no.” (Matthew 5:37)

• “Above all else, guard your heart, for everything you do flows from it.” (Proverbs 4:23)

• “Let each of you look not only to his own interests, but also to the interests of others.” (Philippians 2:4)

Call to Action:
Reflect: Are any relationships crossing healthy boundaries? Pray for courage to reset expectations and honor your own needs.

3 Things to Remember:

• Saying ‘No’ is spiritual self-care.

• Boundaries protect growth.

• Jesus valued solitude and limits.

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